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Tolerance towards the bad behaviors and actions of others will be the demise of governments, communities, institutions, families and relationships. Bullies multiply when you practice tolerance. Tolerance leads to injustice.

OTHERS telling you to TOLERATE. Why?
✅ They have the upper hand or the advantageous position.
✅ They are the bullies, the users, the abusers, the pushers.
✅ They impose their will or opinion upon you. They control and deprive.
✅ They make you accept what is unfair, unjust or wrong.
✅  They want you to be submissive and to leave it to God or to those who are in power and control.
✅  They tell you to “turn the other cheek” or be “politically correct”.
✅ They allow others to take what is yours and tell you that it is OK.

If YOU choose to TOLERATE. What is the implication?
✅ There is discord.
✅ There is a bully or an abuser.
✅ There is someone or something you just do not like but you find him/her or the situation still useful to you. Someone deprived, cheated or insulted you and have not apologized. You tolerate.
✅ You can’t win yet. You are working towards a goal. You are not getting what you want.  You wait for the opportunity to break away to be free or to conquer.
✅ You have accepted defeat, you gave up and chose the life of servitude.

Teaching tolerance does not win the fight against hate, bias, and prejudice. Teaching tolerance is aiding and abetting bullies. To be an agent for a prosperous and responsible change, the school system must teach and put emphasis on respect, kindness, gratitude, apology and forgiveness. Teaching tolerance creates a subservient individual. Primed as an easy victim for those who deprive, cheat and insult. Primed to be a follower of an unwavering group, organization or cult.

There is no compromise in tolerance. There is no alliance in tolerance. Tolerance simply demands obedience. You do it their way. There is no negotiation.

The bully learns from those who teach tolerance. He/she learns how to manipulate the new submissive ways that his/her victims have learned from their teachers. If you tolerate or put up with the bully, then for sure he/she will continue to antagonize, rile, vex, deprive and take advantage of your situation.

Academia now teaches that tolerance is not about weakness or submission. It is about recognizing the value of diversity, promoting empathy, and fostering peaceful coexistence. It takes strength to embrace tolerance and respect for others, even in the face of differences or conflicts. If we allow our children to be influenced by this philosophy, then we are paving the path for the bullies to win.

Without discipline, the bully sprouts and grows like a weed.

Preaching the freedom of choice and preaching tolerance goes hand in hand.  They teach you that submission is the way to peace. Yes, the peace in a society where they impose and you willingly choose to obey, thereby creating no conflict for them.

There is no cooperation in tolerance. The people who want you to tolerate their impositions, say there is. The people professing tolerance identify the word with courtesy and appreciation. They also identify the word with patience. There is a fine line between patience and tolerance. Patience carries the ingredient of love whereas, tolerance does not. Patience assumes a connection, tolerance does not. A nurse may tolerate the ornery patient because that is her job. However, the wife of the ornery patient has patience because she loves him.

Patience will allow you to solve a problem, work your way out of a terrible situation or untie a hard knot. On the other hand, tolerance looks at the problem, the situation or the knot and simply accepts it. You improve with patience, you deteriorate with tolerance. Patience allows you work and help inform the ignorant.

You can choose to tolerate the behavior of your companions or your community. That is your right. But never ever make the mistake of identifying tolerance for patience, respect or kindness.  Do not mistake diplomacy or being patient and cordial for tolerance. Do not mistake a negotiated truce for tolerance. Tolerance has its place. It plays a crucial part in our lives. Tolerance is beneficial only if you made a firm decision to make a change for the relief. It allows you to make a plan. There is a time for tolerance. But continued tolerance even when there is the opportunity to win is cowardice.

On the other hand, tolerate or endure if you must, until you are able to negotiate a truce, free yourself from shackles of the situation or fight back. Fight, not because you hate or you are hated, fight because you are defending and protecting what and who you love and respect.

When there is tolerance, usually injustice follows.

The dictionary defines tolerance as such:
noun: tolerance; plural noun: tolerances

The term “tolerat” comes from the Latin verb “tolerare,” which means “to endure,” “to bear,” or “to tolerate.” It is derived from the Indo-European root *tel-, meaning “to bear” or “to carry.” This root can be found in various other Latin words, such as “tollo” (to lift) and “portare” (to carry).

The concept of tolerance emerged as a means for one culture to coexist with others who held different beliefs. It involved a willingness to put up with diversity, emphasizing endurance and the expectation that the tolerated party would adhere to certain norms.

Initially, tolerance focused on maintaining societal order and stability. Over time, influenced by factors including the infiltration of liberalism into academia, the English understanding of tolerance underwent a shift. It became closely associated with acceptance, promoting a more inclusive and embracing approach. In contrast, Latin and Spanish have retained the original meaning of tolerance, which emphasizes enduring or bearing without necessarily implying full acceptance or approval.

  1. the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with. “the tolerance of corruption”
    • synonyms: forbearance, toleration, sufferance, liberality, open-mindedness, lack of prejudice, lack of bias, broad-mindedness, liberalism; patience, long-suffering, magnanimity, sympathy, understanding, charity, lenience, leniency, lenity, indulgence, clemency, permissiveness, complaisance, laxness
    • “an advocate of religious tolerance”
    • antonyms: intolerance
  1. the capacity to endure continued subjection to something, especially a drug, transplant, antigen, or environmental conditions, without adverse reaction. “the desert camel shows the greatest tolerance to dehydration”
    • synonyms: endurance of, acceptance of; resistance to, immunity to, non-susceptibility to, resilience to “tolerance to alcohol decreases with age”

Last Updated on July 5, 2023

1 Comment


    I agree.

    We must learn to Assert our Right to Peace, not on their terms but ours.


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